I’m going to let you in on a little secret. We all place a hell of a lot of weight on getting laid, scoring, all that. How much of it is for the benefit of our own social standing? How much of it is pure base lust, the same 5 seconds of ecstasy that’s kept humanity and nature rolling on and reproducing for millions of years? Are YOU falling into that trap?
You know when the amazing, life changing sex occurs? when the woman that just totally kills it comes along? When you make a sincere emotional connection, that’s when. When you’re in touch with another human being on a deeper level than the next orgasm or your own frail egos. When the two of you establish an unspoken lover’s language. That’s where transcendence can be found. This endless seeking? These club bathroom fucks and one night stands? they are PALE imitations. They are the difference between a handmade couture dress and a polyester knockoff from forever 21.